`Mei Waku' -- Japanese Phrase Smooths The Path Of Human Relations

When it comes to behaving, there is a phrase in the Japanese language called ``Mei waku'' (may waku). This is taught not only at school and at home, but by all people you come in contact with.

It is almost like saying ``Good morning'' or ``Good evening.'' It means ``do not cause anyone any problem.''

Sometimes the phrase itself does cause a problem. However, because of it I believe most Japanese are well behaved and keep out of other people's way as much as possible.

It also enables them to live rather peacefully and with little friction among themselves. Tokyo would be three-high with people if everyone thoughtlessly went outdoors at once. When thrust into a train loaded with people, everyone tries to keep out of everyone's way.

Confucius once said, ``When in a cabbage patch do not stoop to tie your shoe. Also, when you are in an apple orchard do not touch your hat.'' I wonder if the Chinese carry the word a bit too far.

You see, someone broke into my car the other day.

- Elmer S. Tazuma, Seattle